~ I stay home with 3 children... Am I dead?!!! ~

      Is it just me or do all stay at home mom's lose their identity? At one time I was.... Amber.... Now I am "Havana, Lu, or Evi's Mom." Aside from that I am "Honey" or "Baby." I almost forgot my name until I ran into someone at the grocery store who called it out. I finally went out with my hubby for a wonderful date night last weekend. First time in around about 6 months or so. It was sooo great to be myself for a few hours! :-) I get invited out all the time, but it's really hard to get away. I keep telling myself that things will be easier when the kids are older. Sure hope I'm right.... but for now I'm pretty happy just being "Mommy and Baby." :-)